I thought there was something missing from my flist! Your posts! I do hope your brother starts to get better. The best thing for him is to try to get right back into what he was doing before, whether it's sports, work etc etc. Idleness always breeds more trouble/pain.

As for crossroads... go for it.. I'll kinda just stay.. um.. on my side of the world... :P hahahaha...

Oh and I was going to send you something.. but I can't seem to find your addy... did you have a post about it somewhere but if not...if you've still got my email addy can you send it my way?
Cheers!